The degree to which human consciousness is programming the digital realm is the degree to which human consciousness is being programmed by the digital/thought realm. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Do you have control over your thoughts? Sit in a quiet room without thinking or doing anything for one hour. IF this is actually done, you will find that you will be unable to remain thought free (where do all of those thoughts come from, anyway?) for more than a few seconds. In addition to this, notice how many times in that hour the idea to look at your phone or computer arises. In a normal day are these impulses ever resisted or even questioned?
What you think you are is not in control.